Qanday qizga uylansam ekan?

Ibrohim ibn Ali al-Zuhliydan rivoyat qilinadi: “Yahyo bin Yahyoning soʻzlarini eshitdim, u bir vaqtlar Sufyon bin Uyayna bilan oʻtirgan ekan ularning huzuriga bir kishi kelib:

“Ey, Abu Muhammad, men sizning oldingizga xotinimdan shikoyat qilish uchun keldim, chunki uning uchun men bu dunyodagi barcha narsalarning eng pasti va ahamiyatsiziman”.

Sufyon boshini bir oz pastga tushirib oʻyga choʻmdi, soʻng koʻtarib: “Ehtimol, sen uni xotin qilib olganingda, oʻzingning obroʻ-eʼtiboring odamlar orasida koʻtarilishini niyat qilgandirsan”, dedi. U: “Ha, Abu Muhammad, shunday”, deb javob berdi.

Bunga javoban Sufyon dedi: “Kim nikoh paytida obroʻga intilsa, u xor boʻladi, boylikka intilgan, albatta qashshoqlikka tushib qoladi va kim din uchun harakat qilsa, Alloh dindorlik bilan birga izzat va boylikni ham beradi”.
Shundan keyin Sufyon unga bitta hikoya aytib berdi:

“Biz toʻrt aka-uka edik: Muhammad, Imron, Ibrohim va men. Muhammad eng kattasi, eng kichigi Imron edi, men oʻrtancha oʻgʻil edim. Muhammad uylanishni vaqti yetganda ayolining aslzoda, zodagonlar oilasidan boʻlishini orzu qilar edi va u zodagonlik jihatidan oʻzidan ustun boʻlgan qizga uylandi va Alloh uni xor qildi.

Imron moddiy ahvolga moyil boʻlib, oʻzidan boy ayolni xotin qilib oldi, biroq qashshoqlikka duchor boʻldi, xotinining qarindoshlari undan hamma narsani olib qoʻyib, unga hech narsa qoldirishmadi.

Men ham kelin tanlash muammolariga duch keldim. Oʻsha paytda Maʼmar bin Rashid bilan uchrashib qoldim.

Unga birodarlarim haqidagi voqeani aytib bergach, men u bilan maslahatlashishga qaror qildim va u menga Yahyo bin Jaʼdadan va Oysha roziyallohu anhodan kelgan hadisni eslatdi.

Yahyo bin Jaʼda rivoyat qilgan hadis: «Paygʻambar sollallohu alayhi vasallam: «Ayolga toʻrt narsa uchun nikohlaniladi; moli uchun, hasabi uchun, jamoli uchun va dini uchun. Bas, dindorini tanla…» – dedilar».

Oysha roziyallohu keltirgan hadisda Rasululloh sollallohu alayhi vasallam:” Ayollarning eng barakalilari xarajatlari (mahri va boshqalar) oz boʻlganlaridir”, deb aytganlar.

Men Rasululloh sollallohu alayhi vasallamga ergashib, oʻzim uchun dindorlikni va sarf-xarajatlarning osonligini tanladim va Alloh menga dindorlikdan tashqari mol-mulk bilan birga sharaf ham berdi”.

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